“It all started at a meeting of one of my professional groups,” says Mike, a Senior Partner. “We?d all made a bucket list and high on my list was making a difference in a kid's life that wasn't one of my own. From there I learned more about mentoring and searched on the web where I found Douglas County Partners. Yes, the process to become a mentor is intense, but the result is exceptional.”
“Charlie was a pure kid when I met him,” continues Mike. “Being his mentor is a fortunate part of my life. At first our biggest challenge was learning to converse with each other. I'd talk, but Charlie wasn't much for conversation so driving to destinations was often quiet. However, that's changed. We've become comfortable with each other and our time together is filled with sharing, activities, and just plain fun.”
“I was 10 when I met Mike,” explains Charlie. “He helps me to not be lonely. He likes doing things with just me. He listens, and that's big. And, we mostly do what I want to do. Mike's older but a really good guy! He gets me to try different things and to do stuff I probably wouldn't even think about on my own. We've done Paint Balling, have gone to lots of museums, and do things like sports, bicycling, running, and skiing.”
“I work hard to not be a parent or too judgmental,” stresses Mike. Listening, supporting, and doing things together – that's my approach to mentoring. I've received a lot in my life and it's important I give back. For me, mentoring is giving my time to spend with Charlie. It's been a humbling experience, but look at his (Charlie's) smile. It may sound selfish, but being his mentor makes me feel good. It's a good reason to get up in the morning!”
“Mike's been good for me. He really does listen and doesn't judge me. And, we have fun together. He's here for me, just me. That's important,” exclaims Charlie.
